You Can't Rush Pregnancy.



Dear Husband,

SUPPORT your wife. Please do not show her that you feel frustrated when her monthly period comes. Do not be impatient. Remember, fertile couples have 25% chance of getting pregnant per cycle. It can even take up to a year before you finally have a baby.

I am a member of a local forum in the Philippines, where I get to read posts of women who where trying to conceive for many years. They do have different reproductive health concerns, most of them have PCOS (Polycystic Ovary Syndrome), some has Ovarian Cyst, clogged fallopian tubes, Ectopic Pregnancy, etc., but they are all in the same boat of TRYING to CONCEIVE.

In a post where I replied the other day, I was worried about a certain woman. She was afraid to tell her husband about her reproductive health. They have been married for two years, she had an operation last year due to Ectopic Pregnancy. Sadly, her doctor told her that she only has 50/50 chances of getting pregnant again. She had herself checked this year, and found out that she now has cysts in her ovary. She was not able to tell her husband about this latest condition, because her husband shows frustration, every time her monthly period comes.

Look GUYS, I can advise her to be open to her husband, because he deserves to know. But I understand why she can't speak to her husband about it. Please, if you are in the same situation, when you already want a baby in your home, and your wife isn't pregnant yet, SUPPORT her. I can feel the pressure that this woman is feeling.

When we got married, I was also worried about the "are you already pregnant" questions that I received EVERY SINGLE DAY. My husband was supportive enough to tell me not to be pressured. So I was also able to tell him how I felt. I was not afraid to ask him to accompany me to an OB-Gyne. I also had PCOS, but he never showed me that he has a problem with it.

To cut it short, show your wife that you love her enough, that you will be supportive and patient while waiting for a baby. ENJOY your relationship. STOP thinking about her getting pregnant. As soon as you stop thinking about it, she'll get pregnant. If she has a previous reproductive health condition, tell her that you can accompany her to her OB-Gyne or Doctor. In that way, she would feel that you are just beside her. Then, she wouldn't be afraid to tell you anything about what's going on in her body. Most women in these conditions are also afraid that their husband might just end up with ANOTHER girl, because she has not gotten pregnant yet. Please, do help her with that, too... =) YOU MARRIED her, Till death do you part.






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  1. eka, herbal is a must take by any woman trying to get pregnant. I was devastated and so was my husband after being told by my fertility specialist at age 38 that I had no option but to consider adoption or donor eggs (according to my doctor I was out of eggs and gave me 4% chance of getting pregnant and a 2% chance of carrying a baby to full term). After much research and dozens of hours reading infertility related articles and posts online, I have found your email (dreka14demons@gmail.com)! I never believed in anything alternative to western medicine and thought all the other stuff like Chinese medicine was a hoax. But I was soon glad to be wrong as I followed your the guidelines given to me as soon as you cast on me pregnancy spell and send to me your natural herbals. After one month of trying I became pregnant and had a beautiful healthy boy. Nine months after that I did everything you told me again and after 2 months of trying I got pregnant again and gave birth to another perfect little boy. I would recommend anyone with an open mind to contact eka on (dreka14demons@gmail.com). It just might be the answer to your prayers. Thank you for everything you have done for me, EKA!"

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